I am stuck! I committed myself to doing two university level units of study in the current semester. I downloaded all the course outlines, readings, and assignments! I set up Outlook appointments for study times and my part-time job. I actively engaged in the online community, but then something happened…
I sat in front of my computer and froze. Logically I had it all worked out – after all, it was just 12-13 weeks of study – surely I can commit myself to that! It was interesting stuff about communication, publishing, editing and design. In my mind I was back to being 15-16 years old. I didn’t complete my last year at High School for fear of failing. It was an awful place to be, but all these years later, the same fears and emotions returned.
As a result of my “freeze” I decided to defer my studies until 2013 – fortunately it was approved.
My biggest stumbling block was GRAMMAR! It may well have been a prehistoric language. I know the basic stuff about nouns, verbs, adjectives etc. and I mostly understand passive voice. There is so much more to it and I was torn with annoyance about not knowing something and the question “do I really need to know this stuff?”
Prior to deferring my studies I ordered a book from Amazonย called English Grammar in Use –ย a self-study reference and practice book for intermediate learners of English and it is written by Raymond Murphy. It comes with a CD and it provides answers to all the exercises in the book. I was a little put off with INTERMEDIATE as I have used English as a first language all my life! When do I graduate to the next level!!!
So, there it is – do we really need to know grammar THAT well? What do you think? Are there parts of grammar that still confuse you?
There was another lesson for me in this experience and it took another book to regain some confidence. It is called The Confidence Gap – from fear to freedom, written by Dr Russ Harris. His approach in new in psychology (to the best of my knowledge) but has been known by many cultures for centuries – mindfulness and allowing our thoughts to come and go without getting “fused” (Harris’s word) with our thoughts, negative or positive. I would recommend the book to anyone struggling with self-confidence.
As for the GRAMMAR book – I haven’t decided if I really want to improve my skills in this area. It would be great to gain some skills and overcome past fears in this area. I will think about it (in a diffused sort of way) ๐
Cheers
Lorraine
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Are you having to answer grammar questions for your studies? If not, I see no point in learning the intricacies of grammar from a book. If you think about the way you speak, and read, your written work will be well constructed and grammatically correct. In any case, these days the spell and grammar check will alert you to possible errors (possible being the operative word here – don’t take it’s suggestions as gospel …!).
I hope you’ve confirmed your participation next semester?
Thanks for your thoughts about this – I appreciate you taking the time to comment. I can go back to my studies in February or July in 2013 but not sure yet if I will or not ๐ Lorraine
I’m sorry to hear that. You’d be surprised at how different ‘school is as a mature person, and if you thought you’d enjoy/benefit from learning those things a few months ago, it’s probably still true. ๐
Thanks again for your thoughts ๐
Lorraine
Good luck!
Do we really need to know grammar THAT well? No
Are there parts of grammar that still confuse you? Yes. There are parts that I’m sure I don’t even know about. I believe that “content is king” grammar is of secondary importance.
What a sensible response – I like that “content is king”
thanks
Lorraine